{"id":696,"date":"2002-04-28T00:17:46","date_gmt":"2002-04-28T04:17:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/?p=696"},"modified":"2002-04-28T00:17:46","modified_gmt":"2002-04-28T04:17:46","slug":"696","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/?p=696","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><P>Ok, so finally someone gave a comment that gives me somewhere to go with \ud83d\ude09<\/P><br \/>\n<P>Callings.&nbsp; Does God give callings?&nbsp; Is everyone called to a speciffic thing?&nbsp; Is anyone called to anything?&nbsp; If you have a calling, how do you know what your calling is?<\/P><br \/>\n<P>Firstly, I have to say, the best article I have ever read on this is over at Decapolis (<A href=\"http:\/\/www.decapolis.com\" target=_new>www.decapolis.com<\/A>; click on &#8220;features and articles&#8221;, it is under features&#8230; it&#8217;s called &#8220;What is my calling?&#8221;).&nbsp; Conrad is a smart guy.&nbsp; I reccomend reading everything to be found there, if you get the chance.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>Now, for starters&#8230;.&nbsp; I have always been told by people that basically, everyone has a calling on your life.&nbsp; You need to do what God has called you to do&#8230; whether that be to be a pastor, to be a doctor, to be a&nbsp;rock star, or to be a&#8230; janitor, i guess (hey, somebody&#8217;s gotta do it).&nbsp; If you don&#8217;t do what you are called to do, you are outside of the will of God and therefore will never be as happy as you could\/should be.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>Personally, I have never felt a calling on me at ALL.&nbsp; I haven&#8217;t even felt a &#8220;this is what I want to do more then anything else&#8221;&#8230;&nbsp; Sure, there are some things I&#8217;d love to do, but I&#8217;m not necessarily sure that I&#8217;m really cut out for any of them.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>So that led me to believe that in general, God does not place a divine calling on each of our individual lives.&nbsp; I also think that this means beliefs such as that God has that perfect special someone out there for you, that you are supposed to be with are merely idealistic beliefs.&nbsp; I mean, think about it&#8230;.&nbsp; What happens if the person you are &#8220;supposed&#8221; to be with ends up with someone else?&nbsp; Then it messed you up, it messed it up for them, it messed it up for the person that the person you were supposed to be with ended up with&#8230; and the person that they were supposed to be with&#8230; and so on and so on.&nbsp; No one would be in the will of God as far as that is concerned.&nbsp; Plus there is no such thing as the &#8220;perfect&#8221; person to be&nbsp;with anyway, since perfection is not a quality which is attainable by a human.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>I think that our calling is mostly determined by our desires.&nbsp; I think that perhaps, in&nbsp;a way, God may give us callings by giving us desires.&nbsp; If you have a desire to play music, go for it, be a musician&#8230; if you have a desire to&#8230; be a computer programmer, go for it&#8230;. if you have a desire to&#8230; insert your desire here&#8230; go for it.&nbsp; You have that desire for a reason.&nbsp; Most people never achieve their dreams as far as doing what they want to do.&nbsp; I think that all of these people have missed out on their &#8220;calling&#8221; (if you want to call it a calling).<\/P><br \/>\n<P>I do however, think that some people are given clear callings to do something&#8230; and sometimes they may not want to do it right away.&nbsp; These are specific instances though, and do not apply to everyone.&nbsp; Some are given clear callings to be pastors, and these callings should not be ignored.<\/P><br \/>\n<P>Expect another post tomorrow (or later today, depending on how you look at it&#8230; at any rate, sometime after I wkae up tomorrow morning).<\/P><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ok, so finally someone gave a comment that gives me somewhere to go with \ud83d\ude09 Callings.&nbsp; Does God give callings?&nbsp; Is everyone called to a speciffic thing?&nbsp; Is anyone called to anything?&nbsp; If you have a calling, how do you know what your calling is? 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