{"id":489,"date":"2003-02-24T10:56:31","date_gmt":"2003-02-24T15:56:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/?p=489"},"modified":"2003-02-24T10:56:31","modified_gmt":"2003-02-24T15:56:31","slug":"489","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/?p=489","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>sometimes the greatest harm can result from the best intentions&#8230;.<BR><BR>Nothing sucks quite so much as that.  You intend to do a good thing, help someone out&#8230; and then, because you&#8217;re stupid and stubborn or whatever about the way you go about it&#8230;.  you just make stuff worse, in fact having the exact opposite effect that you wanted to have.  I had a little run-in with that situation yesterday.  Believe me, it wasn&#8217;t enjoyable.  It sucks to feel that you completely failed someone as a friend&#8230; more then i can imagine most anything else would.  However, it&#8217;s all been sorted out now.  Still will effect stuff for a bit i&#8217;m sure, as whenever you get someone ticked at you it generally does&#8230; but&#8230; yeah.<BR><BR>on a much different note&#8230;.  i am going to be coming home for spring break on thursday.  it will be good.  my parents were dumb and bought me plane tickets despite the fact that i told them not to \ud83d\ude09  oh well.  i guess i can&#8217;t really complain too much.  it&#8217;s a heck of a lot faster.  so yeah, thursday night I arrive in the land of coldness.  I think I would rather stay here actually, but you know&#8230;  i already told people i was going up there&#8230; and&#8230;  there&#8217;s the whole plane ticket thing now.  So I guess I don&#8217;t really have an option.  Oh well.  Actually it&#8217;s probably better for me to leave for a bit anyway, for reasons I won&#8217;t get into here \ud83d\ude42<BR><BR>All for now.<BR><BR><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>sometimes the greatest harm can result from the best intentions&#8230;.Nothing sucks quite so much as that. You intend to do a good thing, help someone out&#8230; and then, because you&#8217;re stupid and stubborn or whatever about the way you go about it&#8230;. you just make stuff worse, in fact having the exact opposite effect that &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/?p=489\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\"><\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/489"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=489"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/489\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=489"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=489"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darkestlight.org\/xanga\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=489"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}